How do you greet someone you meet for the first time? The answer to this probably depends on where you are. If you try an Asian bow to say hello to someone in South America, you will get a confused reaction. However, if you try to give someone in Japan a kiss on the cheek, they may become genuinely scared. As a result of globalization, the world has become more neutral in some ways, for example, the handshake has become the most normal way of greeting people in international formal situations.
Topics of conversation that are considered taboo change a lot as well. Generally, in the Western world, asking someone’s age is disrespectful, however, in Japan and Vietnam it is pretty normal. It’s no surprise when a Chinese person asks how much money you make either. In India it is very common to ask young people if they are married, and, if the answer is “no”, then they are not afraid to ask “why?“.
Regarding table manners, there are some things which unite most of the world. It is common on all continents to say something before eating, usually something like ‘good appetite’. Interestingly, one language where this is not said is English, in which it is more common to use the French “bon appetit”. One thing that most people would always consider rude is burping at the table, however, in China it is seen as a compliment to the cook.
In a classroom, our students may come from different cultural cultural backgrounds and have different manners. What can be rude to us, can be completely normal and acceptable for them. That's why as educators we need to be respectful and accept our students as they are. Instead of being quick to judge when they do something that doesn't seem quite right, we can ask them "why do you this? Can you explain it to me? I want to understand your point of view". By doing this, we will create a safe learning environment in our classroom.